This Is How

This Is How

Proven Aid in Overcoming Shyness, Molestation, Fatness, Spinsterhood, Grief, Disease, Lushery, Decrepitude & More-- for Young and Old Alike

Book - 2012
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"From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Running With Scissors comes a groundbreaking book that explores how to survive the "un-survivable" and will challenge your notion of self-help books." Publisher's description.
Publisher: New York : St. Martin's Press, c2012.
Edition: 1st ed.
ISBN: 9780312563554
Branch Call Number: 814.54 Bur
Characteristics: viii, 230 p. ; 22 cm.


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StephanieOne Jun 28, 2019

I usually love Augusten's books, so I was so excited to pick this one up. It's very much his usual style, but for some reason I just could not get into it. I tried to force myself through, tried flipping through some chapters, but just could not full get into it. Don't get me wrong, it's well written, witty, and in a manner that makes it seem like he's your friend just telling it like it is instead of an author writing this to thousands of people at once. His advice just did not seem to really make much sense to me, for some reason.

ArapahoeStaff20 Oct 27, 2017

This book was not made for everyone. Personally, I loved the author's flagrant use of "truth" and "lies". The brutal honesty throughout may appear condescending to some, but it spoke to my sensibilities.

ArapahoeElena Mar 13, 2017

A self-help book like only Augusten Burroughs could write- funny, dry, self-depricating and at the same time self-aggrandizing, and still oddly touching. The author's voice comes through clearly and he does offer some thought provoking advice. A nice commentary on the genre without being overly critical.

squib Feb 01, 2017

a guide to subverting our common tropes dealing with the deep questions that plague us all. this is a thing of beauty, and undermines much of the harmful material that subverts us under the guise of self-help

Amber L Moreno
Sep 09, 2015

This book has kind of a mild beginning. After a few pages of standard self-help, Augusten Burroughs starts laying down serious advice. Witty, inventive and stupid-simple, this book brought me to tears. An uplifting and inspirational life manual for the modern human.

Jul 30, 2015

Down to earth and rough. Great descriptions of how things are. He writes as a true gay man, which I am not, but he writes truth and core feelings. Fresh and much appreciated.

Cynthia_N Jan 07, 2015

Fantastic book! Burroughs shares his philosophy of how he believes people should handle some of the tough stuff that we all might have to deal with in our lives. I don't necessarily agree with everything in the book but its a great resource/read for someone who tends to hold onto the troubles life throws their way.

AshRichards Apr 15, 2013

Straight forward and it assists you if you are currently struggling through something (I was); however, if you are reading for curiousity sake, it may be a bit repetitious.

mrmervis Mar 14, 2013

Light but direct talk about several deep subjects. Strangely uplifting.

glynis2 Mar 08, 2013

Really good, straightforward advice. It seems so obvious after you read the book. Some of the early chapters can be a little boring if it's about a problem you don't struggle with, but you can always skip those or skim through really fast. The nice thing is that each chapter is pretty short, so it's a quick and easy read, unless you're stopping to ponder the advice (which I did occasionally) The chapters near the end are really good and insightful, about dealing with illness and death. I learned a lot about myself and how I deal with things from this book.

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Sep 14, 2012

This book is missing a chapter. 'How to state your opinion or stress your point without using excessive unnecessary vulgar language.' I would not recommend to those that are sensitive to swear words.


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